Boab wrote:girldorksrule wrote:Boab wrote:The past few years we have seen her act in ways, which to me seem like a cry for help. Others may not agree buts thats my opinion. This latest episode surely has to be it for Britney. I really hope she gets the help she needs.
While I totally agree here, it is up to her to get the help. You can't force another human to get help. She checked into rehab...she was trying to get help, or so it seemed, until she checked herself out. She needs to grow up, put on her big girl panties, and take care of business and stop acting like a spoiled child.
With all due respect this is just the beginning of the end IMO. The no panties incident had nothing to do with this on the whole scale of things. Whatever the reason for her doing this is a mystery, but this is a girl that has grown up since around the age of 11 in showbiz. Since she was 15/16 she has been made a role model to hundreds of thousands and had her every move watched and scrutinised. I think you are very naive in saying she should grow up. IMO she is suffeirng from mental health issues. This has been the case for years not just the past few months. There have too many incidents to mention. She is clearly rebelling against her past career. A career that, although making her rich and famous, had her thrown about like a piece of meat for the corporates to make big bucks.
Don't judge someone until you have walked a mile in their shoes. I personally don't think i could handle all that pressure. Others may like to think they can but history has shown that many cant.
You make it sound so easy just to walk into rehab and hey presto you're fixed. You're attitude is typical of societys attitude towards the demise of celebritys these days. We think cos they are rich and famous that all is well or all should be well. We never think of the pressures, the strains, the downfalls and why....................cos she is Britney f**kin Spears. She MUST be happy cos she's living the dream.
I wish the girl all the best, but may i add that not for one minute did i say she should be forcefully restrained and helped. I merely said i hope she gets the help she needs. I still stand by that statement.
I included the panty incident because it's part in parcel of what's put her in the press as of late, and since this is a forum where we
discuss things and put our opinions, I included mine and why? ... because I felt like it! ...as I'm sure girldork did as well.
Since she put herself out there for people to notice, she's getting just what she wants....and that's to have people talk about her and stare at her image in the rags. If she isn't happy about it then perhaps she should keep her legs closed, put some pants on and live like the normal people do....and TRY being a mother to her children.
I don't care if she started in showbiz from her nappy days. Years pass and people have to mentally grow as it's just the way life is, and if you're old enough to have children then you should be old enough to know how to conduct yourself in the public eye.
She needs to cop on here and get a grip of what the real world is about, and I feel pity for her because she's acting like a person totally out of control mentally, but nowhere do I see anyone saying that it's easy to walk into rehab and walk out and presto your sorted? It's clearly the facts of what she did, and if you don't like the facts then perhaps you should address it to the rags that wrote it or the rehab clinic she was in that released the information.
Don't shoot the messenger!
I don't particularly care if she's living the dream or not....but one thing I can assure you is she's living in a dream world.
I don't look at celebs as some ultimate humans that deserve any better understanding or treatment then the next person, but they've the means to get themselves the best help possible. If they don't take the opportunity to do so then that's rather unfortunate, but what's even more unfortunate is the average joe out there that's skint and can't afford to get help and live a normal life. Where's the compassion for them? and just because they've no celebrity status they'll never even be seen, and that's the one I care for most. The ones that can't mentally or physically help themselves.
She's human, therefor I pity her for her problems, but that's as far as it goes. She's causing more of her own problems than I or anyone else am from talking about her or giving our opinions.
